Bullies just used to beat you up in real life, but there are online bullies who think they can make a person wish they'd never started a blog, joined the notorious Facebook, or have any presence at all on the internet.
Sometimes it's just that their brain is coming unhinged, Age, Mental Illness, personal tragedy that makes them want to hurt someone for no reason other than it makes themselves feel more powerful, in control, and that they like being mean in a semi anonymous way. Usually they are arrogant and think they know ALL there is to know about any given subject.
So, the defense is to step back, take stock of the time you spend on the web, and decide if it's really worth it.
This is what to do if one starts trolling your blog or your presence anywhere, grade school, church, university, anywhere one latches onto your heart and soul. Remember, they are the sick ones. Just remember that bullies are always petty, less powerful if you deprive them of air or space inside your head, or any number of other tactics that keep you focused on your OWN personal goals built during the years that you normally have to form yourself.
HERE is a good site that tells how to keep your strength and belief in yourself, and also in the truth of existence and it's purpose. We all have a lot more strength than we imagine.
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