"Everyone can master a Grief but he who has it”
William Shakespeare
"They are taking the Kingdom of Heaven by storm and doing it violence.”
Jesus
Greed is an incredibly contagious disease 🦠 And, it’s a shame when anyone catches it.
Zippi

Friday, January 13, 2023

Saturday 9: "Hurting Each Other" The Carpenters

Welcome to Saturday: 9. What we've committed to our readers is that we will post 9 questions every Saturday. Sometimes the post will have a theme, and at other times the questions will be totally unrelated. Those weeks we do "random questions," so-to-speak. We encourage you to visit other participants posts and leave a comment. Because we don't have any rules, it is your choice. We hate rules. We love to answer the questions, however, and here is today's questions!


Saturday 9: Hurting Each Other (1972)

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) This week's song was written by Gary Geld and Peter Udell, who also wrote 1962's "Sealed with a Kiss." What was in the last envelope you sealed?  

It was a letter to my  youngest daughter, who wanted to start writing letters back and forth.  

2) In "Hurting Each Other," Karen Carpenter sings she wishes she and her lover could stop making each other cry. Have you most recently shed a tear in the last week, the last month, or longer ago than that? 

I don’t cry very much anymore but I did cry when reading the news last night, late, when I couldn’t sleep. 

I haven’t, yet, become a real cry baby, and these were Angry tears, mostly.  I cried because nothing freakin’ changes, y’know? 


3) One of the Carpenters' first records was a cover of the Beatles' "Ticket to Ride." Both Karen and Richard were huge fans and nervous about how the Beatles would react to their version. They were thrilled to learn that Paul McCartney responded by saying Karen had "one of the best female voices in the world." Tell us some news you received recently that brightened your day.  

My kids and their friends and loved ones are all safe from the floods, storms, and winds in Central Coast. Thanks to God! πŸ€ πŸ™πŸΌπŸ€ŸπŸΌ


4) Karen died in 1983, but her musical partner and big brother Richard is still with us. He has said he grew up a big fan Top 40 radio, listening every morning as he got ready for school and every afternoon while doing homework. When you were a kid, did you like to study with music or the TV on? Or would you prefer quiet? 

I could do math and things that weren't Word related studies with some background music.   Anything else?  I liked it quiet. TV was not on until later at night. 

5) Karen and Richard spent their teen years in Downey, California. It has the distinction of being home to the nation's oldest, still-operating McDonald's. It's been on the same site on Lakewood Blvd. since 1953. Tell us about a business in your neighborhood that seems to have always been right there, in that spot.  That would be our local "House of Fabrics".  I haven't been there in three years, but it's still there as far as I know.

 

6) The siblings may have had a squeaky clean public image, but Richard did have a brush with the law while in Downey. The Carpenter family lived for a time in an apartment complex, and one of their neighbors -- a policeman -- objected to Richard "banging on the piano" at all hours. When did you most recently interact with an officer of the law?  

There are law enforcement officers in our extended family so it was probably the last time we went to Thanksgiving dinner.  But you mean "officially".  That would maybe 15 years ago in a neighborhood problem over a neighbor’s smashed garage window late at night. 


7) In 1972, when this song was popular, Mark Spitz was America's premier Olympian, winning seven Gold Medals. A poster of Spitz wearing his red, white and blue swim trunks and all seven medals was a top seller. Can you recall a poster that decorated your bedroom wall when you were a kid?  

Posters weren't a "thing"  when I was a kid.  We were still stealing bird eggs from nests for food and using our tiny bows and arrows to get small game for the evening bird and rodent roasts.  Truth!  lol  

I was a teen in the late 50's, and early 60's.  

The first poster I even owned was this one....  I'm not sure what happened to it, since I haven't seen it lately.. 

The Image is now Owned by someone

8) Also in 1972, Liza Minnelli was encouraging us to "come to the cabaret." Without looking it up, do you know who Liza's famous parents were? 

I know that Judi Garland is/was her mother but not who her father is/was. 


9) Random question: Are you a better student or teacher? 

As to me, I am good student, a life long learner.  I would have loved to be a Special Ed teacher but Fate had a different path for me. 

 Actual experience:  I home schooled the twins through part of junior high and part of high school.  They then went to an alternative school, and they graduating 2 years early.  I'd like to think that the efforts I made for them helped them do this, and with Honors, but it was most likely innate.  

What happened after was certainly not a planned entry into adulthood, but I hoped that my dedication to giving them the best launch on offer at the time would eventually  help them throughout their lives.  They are, like their sisters before them, caring, loving, thoughtful and “connected” to their “better angels”. 

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Thanks again Sam, for this lovely little MEME on Saturday.  Lots of LOVE is going out to you from a Soggy but Happy Southern California.

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14 comments:

  1. Hi Zippi, we sure have got lots of rain over here. I heard you are getting a lot too. My brother-in-law lives in Salinas. I am worried that all the rain is going to ruin the salad crops and raise prices. Glad you family is okay!

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    1. Hi Susan. Thanks! And, I looked at Salinas, too, and worried. Since my kids live up in that part of the state, they told me it was very bad. I hate to think of all the winter crops which are now ruined. Hope that the farmers, especially the organic farms, will be able to recover. The river can bring in chemicals that can't BE in the lettuces. I think that other farmers have a disaster fund or something.

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  2. Glad your family is OK. The weather is nasty at many places in the world. Lots of grief and worry.

    The poster is made by Lorraine Schneider as a reaction to the Vietnam war. The poster became the logo for "Another Mother for Peace". It brought women together to protest against war.

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    1. Thank you Sil. Much appreciated. Kids say they are getting another storm in a day. What a weather whip Central Coast is in! Well, all of California to be honest. About the Poster: it certainly did unite the mothers. I've had my Navy bell bottom wearing and protest days.... Being that I'm 80 put me right in the wave of "in your face" sort of challenges to authority figures in Washington. The heady days of Protesting for all you were worth. Asking the hard questions of stuffed shirted government officials putting a "good" face on war. The good old days. lol

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  3. I hope you continue to stay safe from the storms. Weird weather. Like the poster.

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    1. Thank you CountryDew. Happily, and knock on wood, we haven't gotten half the rain that the upper state has gotten down into L.A. county etc. And, I like that poster, too. I can't think where it walked off to.....

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  4. I am so glad that your loved ones are safe from this incredibly challenging weather!

    Love you!!

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    1. Thank you, Mz Kwizgiver! It was a sickening time, not knowing but only seeing a lot of water taking out neighborhoods. They live and work quite close to Capitola and other hard hit places. One or two more storms and this is supposed to be all of it for the Pineapple express. We will see! I love you, too!

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  5. I'm surprised at how many people don't know that Liza Minnelli's father's name was Minnelli (Vincent). I used to have a "war is not healthy...." necklace, I think. I wonder what happened to it.

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    1. Not knowing that much about Liza, I knew her last name but not that it was her actual name. I thought it was a stage name. Glad to have the info. thanks! Oooo a necklace. That would have been sweet. I just had a poster.

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  6. First of all, YOU didn't mess up the link on Saturday 9. Not at all. When I saw your comment, I thought you'd forgotten to link up so I did it for you. Then you came back and linked. I'm the reason for the duplicate link.

    I remember your poster on signs during protests I saw on the news.

    So glad your family made it through those storms and are safe and sound.

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    1. Thank you! That makes me feel better about this tired old half baked brain I haul around up between my ears. ;o) That Poster was iconic.
      And Thank you en re my family! I had some tense moments. Anxiety started running me over if I so much as turned my head. Happily, the Santa Cruz police are really on the ball. Pro-active.

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  7. #1 My chicken scratches are so bad I can’t even read them.
    #6 My uncle worked his way up to captain of detectives and got me out of sitting in a criminal case, judge “Is anyone in your family a police officer?” Me: yes your honor my a uncle is a detective.” Judge, “You’re excused.”
    #7 I think I had the same poster.

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    1. about #1. I've had to practice ....*shocked face*. I let handwriting go too long!
      #6 We haven't had to serve on a jury for a long time. One of the reasons is that we can opt out, and the other is that there are law enforcement people in the family. lol Having them may fall under the "fair and impartial" part of jury duty. Oh and great that your uncle was a captain of the Detectives. That's a lofty goal, certainly.
      #7. It was a very popular poster. I think mine walked out the door with one of the twins. But I could be wrong. Have a good week, and hopefully it won't be too cold to go outside for a bit. Cheers!

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